It is what it is..

Me and my ex had a long conversation about our break up
yesterday, crazy cause it's been almost a year since we
stopped talking but he some how wanted to
talk about it all yesterday. I reacted pretty
well to my surprise, but.. I've been thinking
should I have made it a bigger deal than
to just say "I hold no grudges?"
I don't know its some what confusing because
we both know the "feelings" are still there but they've
basically just been put on hold. Welp every things
out in the open so all there's left to do
is say "it is what it is.." =/